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Height: 5 ft 4 in / 163- 1991 165 cm
Body type: Average
Smooking: Prefer not to say
Drinking: Prefer not to say
Education: Prefer not to say
Occupation: Prefer not to say
Race: Caucasian
Bust size: 36/C
divorced , with mid to lower back length chestnut hair and leaf green eyes. i'm about 5'4", pierced naval, tattoo...pretty earthy-curvy, voluptuous-(not particularly a large woman)-mostly just real, real feminine. and real women have curves...and oh my god, hips! (the higher power usually has it's little genetic jokes on all of us in one way or another-)i'm pretty much into quiet things. i have a fairly quiet, pretty sweet nature-far from docile but not particularly dominant-so i'm thinking domination and submission, bondage and discipline are out-i'm a baby about pain, and far too soft hearted to inflict any so there goes S&M....and i have a shy side so crowds are out...i'm fairly feline in nature and this sex kitten runs for cover if it gets spooked by too much too soon. somehow i'm thinking i'd have a pretty hard time keeping a straight face anyhow-i have a wicked, wicked sense of humor. most men like my giggle-but i can see how it might be somewhat of a mood dampener.what i'm looking for is not so very complex. i'm just lonely and more than a little bored and i don't have enough fun in my life-i miss being intimate in every way-physically, mentally-emotionally. i just want to have someone to hang with and talk to-a friend, with benefits. and the bottom line is, i want what i want. (and no, i'm not nearly spoiled enough). your assignment if you care to take it on, is to spoil me rot 1ff8 ten and sit back and reap the benefits.and that, gentlemen, is being a totally realistic, honest and upfront woman-a being apparently SOMEWHAT alien to your species. Looking For: A man for discreet relationship or 1-on-1 sex Ideal Person: OKAY...LISTEN UP-ADS WITH PICTURES ONLY-(it's just so non-negotiable, gentlemen-whatever your reason for not having a picture of yourself, i don't care. so,darlin', if you don't have a recognizable picture of your face somewhere on this site so that i can see it, i'm just so not your person-i never go for curtain #3. i believe in physical attraction-chemistry-it's there or it's not. call it shallow, call it cynical, call it anything you want but call it like it is.you can't fake it and it's pretty much somewhat instantaneous. it's that feeling that makes you take a second look, it's a look, it's a hunch-it's indefinable, but it's a fact. and it is sooooo not personal, it's like, soooooo chemical. if you're not attracted to me, and i'm not attracted to you, why go on? we can both be wonderful people, but if the attraction for both isn't there, it isn't there. and it's not personal-it's chemical. if your wants and needs match mine, fine, let's talk-otherwise, i'm just not interested.i'm attracted to single/divorced/widowed caucasian men who are in their mid 30's to mid 40's, who live in Texas-preferably within 50 miles or so of San Antonio. if i'm honest up front, can we just leave it at that? i am so not looking to join a debate club. by nature i'm pretty physical...i said, just like a kitten-so if you don't have the time, the nature or the freedom to keep me purring when needed-no need for games...i'm not the one.i'm not into attached men. i want someone to spend time with and i'm not playing second fiddle to another woman. i don't want to hurt anybody or be the cause of anyone being hurt. that's the end of it.you know, my daddy always said, if it doesn't feel right, it's probably not right-and if it sounds to good to be true, it probably is. i've learned to live by that...do no harm.now, i get to say my personal wish list, right? i know you never get everything you wish for, but you can have preferences.personally i like men that are very, extraordinarily masculine, a little rugged-not necessarily a perfect body, but at least the resemblance of a toned one. i'm real funky about aging and i like a man who feels the same way about himself. i like men who wear jeans and have tattoos (okay, or just look like they ought to have a tattoo...see, i'm flexible!) i like facial hair on a man, i think it's so very sexy but then again, on the right face...well, i'm flexible. heck, as a rule, i like hair on a man, period. i like a man who has a nice solid feel to him, strong, comfortable, snuggly. a man with really nice sturdy shoulders & arms and a nice chest-i like a man who into PDA's and who's very physical-this kitten likes to be petted...i'm a push-over for a great voice that makes my stomach flutter when i hear it, maybe a little sexy and smooth like southern comfort-especially a sexy chuckle. i love a man with a bad-boy grin. i like a man who's assertive and funny and who's sassy as all get out-a bodacious man and if you don't know what that is, you probably aren't one. i like playful, flirty men who know how to be charming and seductive. Bewitched, bothered and bewildered-passion is 95% mental-i want someone who knows how to play and do all the trappings. under the circumstances, i'm not particularly looking for a full-blown romance, but i'm looking for the ambiance of it when i'm spending time with someone. sorry, i totally negate the whole term- "no strings attached" how can you be intimate with someone without a degree of intimacy-get a life. what a safety valve! a friend with benefits, gentlemen. the benefits are obvious, it's the friend part that the challenge. the rest, well, time will tell-let's none of us take it personally and we can all be friends no matter what-and that's all i'm looking for. if it's ever meant to be more, it will beso, if i was a little too blunt, i guess i should be sorry (but i'm not)-shallow, picky? yeah, probably, but i'm just not interested in wasting time. that's okay-they say practice makes perfect...how many frogs did they say you had to kiss again? oh yeah. i'm into kissing. serious toe-curling kissing so if that's not your thing, again, you know....try door #2. so let's keep it high on the libido, the fun and the honesty-down low on the drama and this could work-ya' think?